One Of The Common Causes Of Serious Difficulty Takes The Form Of Parental Self-Discovery. The Newly Adopted Child Brings Out Submerged Feelings Or Behavior In His Parents That Make Them Dislike Themselves. This Can Be Such A Severe Blow To Their Self- Esteem That They Must Eradicate The Cause Of Their Distress. Sometimes The Only Way That Parents Are Able To Do That Is By Returning The Child.