When Children Feel They Have To Earn Our Love By What They Accomplish, They Never Feel Good About Themselves, No Matter How Much They Do, No Matter What Their Age. Indeed, Some Adults Work Outrageous Hours, Make Huge Salaries, And Always Strive To Accomplish More And Yet Are Never Satisfied, No Matter What They Have Achieved. This Is Because They Were Never Given The Free, Unconditional Love Of Their Parents, The Love That Is Every Child’s Birthright.