My Father Taught Me How To Be A Man ? And Not By Instilling In Me A Sense Of Machismo Or An Agenda Of Dominance. He Taught Me That A Real Man Doesn’t Take, He Gives; He Doesn’t Use Force, He Uses Logic; Doesn’t Play The Role Of Trouble-Maker, But Rather, Trouble-Shooter; And Most Importantly, A Real Man Is Defined By What’s In His Heart, Not His Pants.